Tulips 2024

April rains bring in May flowers is a famous Canadian saying. In May, Tulips announce the arrival of Spring at our garden.

Tulips are wildflowers native to central Asia in the Tien Shan Mountains near the Russian-Chinese border but didn’t really become popular until reaching the Netherlands.

They spread west and were cultivated in the Ottoman Empire (modern-day Turkey) by 1000 AD, when the sultans introduced huge beds of tulips to parks and palace gardens.

Tulips are known for their bold colors and beautiful shape, and most varieties are indeed almost perfectly symmetrical.

The word ‘tulip’ comes from ‘tülbend,’ a Turkish pronunciation of the Persian word ‘dulband,’ which means turban.

Tulips are known for their bold colors and beautiful shape, and most varieties are indeed almost perfectly symmetrical.

The blooms have three petals and three sepals, but since the sepals are almost the same size and shape as the petals, tulips appear to have six petals to a bulb.

Striped tulips were originally created from a virus. In 1931, scientists discovered that the coloring was caused by a virus spread by aphids (sap-sucking insects). The virus is still used to alter the DNA, but it’s done without aphids.

Tulips symbolise love but there is a different meaning based on the color tulip. For love and romance, red tulips are the way to go.

If you want to convey an apology, white tulips are the flowers that you seek.

Orange Tulips represent sense of compassion, understanding, and sympathy.

Pink tulips symbolise happiness and confidence.

Purple tulips are associated with royalty.

Yellow tulips are great for cheer and happiness.

Although there are no true black flowers that occur in nature, because of their deep purple petals that almost look black. ‘Queen of the Night’ tulips are one of the most popular varieties because of their deep purple petals that almost look black.

True Blue is one of the few colours with Black that has remained absent from tulip’s impressive colour palette.

The flower is the symbol of the Parkinson’s Disease Foundation. A variety of tulip was named after Dr James Parkinson, the doctor for which the degenerative disease is named.

Currently tulips are the third most popular flower in the world, with roses coming in first and chrysanthemums coming in second.

On Valentine’s Day the tulip is the second most gifted flower (after the rose) – obviously only Red.

Tulip blooms only last a week or two, and we await the tulips to bloom next year.

My Sweet Sugarcane Memories

Recently, on social media, there was an image of the calendar page of August 1947.  The Forwarder pointed out that 15 August 1947 was not printed as a holiday.  This of course was quite natural as the calendar was printed prior to the beginning of the year at which time nothing was known about the epoch-making events which were to follow during the year. What struck me however was that the calendar was of Mr PC Mathew of Ettumannoor, Kottayam and that he was a Jaggery Merchant.   In those days besides the Malayala Manorama newspaper only a few rich businessmen printed calendars.  So one can surmise that Mr. Mathew had a flourishing Jaggery business in Kottayam.

The Central Travencore area prior to independence had extensive sugarcane cultivation, in the areas watered by Pampa, Manimala, Achenkovil and Meenachil rivers.  The area mainly comprising present day Kottayam and Patthanamthitta districts, was ideally suited for Sugarcane cultivation as the climate and soil conditions of the area is suitable for the crop.  Areas like riverbanks, waste lands etc. where other crops could not be cultivated were profitably utilised through sugarcane cultivation. Moreover, sugarcane could tolerate heavy rainfall and short duration water-logging. The golden brown, sweet Central Travencore Jaggery was famous all over India. This is history and the area has very little sugar cultivation now. Recently there have been some reports of individual attempts to revive sugarcane cultivation in the area but largely to no avail.

Up to late 1960’s areas around Kottayam cultivated sugarcane, more than rice and tapioca.  In our young days, children often sneaked into the sugarcane fields to enjoy the ripening cane.  The landowners or their sentries shooed us away, but we were quite successful more often than not.  During our National Defence Academy (NDA) days, the fields around NDA too had sugarcane.  Cadets did the famous गन्ना Ganna (sugarcane) Raids.  In 1996 when I visited the NDA, I found no sugarcane cultivation in the area.  It was sad to see a concrete jungle instead of the rolling sugarcane landscape.

By late 1960s, the sugarcane cultivation stopped in our area and entire Kottayam as there were some pests infesting on the crops and the canes turned red.  The pests sucked away all the juices and left the canes to wilt.  Advent of Rubber was also another reason which dealt a deathblow to sugarcane cultivation in the areas around of Kottayam.  Please click here to read about introduction of Rubber plantations in Kottayam.

Non-availability of sugarcane led to the closure of the sugar division of The Travancore Sugars & Chemicals Ltd. (TSCL) in 1998. The company was incorporated in 1937 with the factory at Thiruvalla in Pathanamthitta District, Kerala, which commenced commercial sugar production on November 1948. The Company was originally owned by M/s Parry & Co. Government of Kerala took over the company in 1974. Now its distillery division produces Jawan brand Rum. Thiruvalla is also home to the Sugarcane Research and Development Centre. Like many research centres in the country, it is a white elephant milked by its employees. Their website shows no research paper ever published and has hardly contributed to the reintroduction of sugarcane in the region.

The sugarcane farmers crushed the sugarcane on a ചക്ക് Chakku.  The Chakku had two vertical metallic cylinders rotated by a bull going around.  The sugarcane was passed between the two metallic cylinders and the juice collected at the bottom.

The metallurgy of the cylinders was not that well developed, and they got worn out over prolonged use, especially in the middle, due to the extensive pressure the passing sugarcane exerted.  As the rollers lost their cylindrical shape, their effectiveness reduced drastically and had to be turned on the lathe, especially at the two ends to make them cylindrical.

The sugarcane juice was boiled in a huge വാർപ്പ് (Vaarppu,) a flat iron boiling pan of about three-meter diameter.   During boiling, chemical bleaching agents or vegetables were added to clean the juice and the extraneous matter was constantly removed to give a bright golden colour. The boiled juice was then left to cool in pots to form the jaggery blocks.

Our village blacksmith, Shankara Panickan lived across the street. He manufactured and sharpened farm implements and knives. The main source of income for Panickan was not from sharpening tools, but from his lathe, housed in a shed between his house and the foundry.  To turn the lathe there was a wheel of a bullock cart attached at one end, which had to be rotated manually at a particular speed.  Panicking’s elder son Thankan, was an expert at the task.

The customers at the lathe were mainly the sugarcane crusher owners.  They had to turn their worn out vertical metallic cylinders on a lathe.  Panickan charged 20 rupees per roller he turned on his lathe, but this bonanza came to Panickan only on a few days, limited to the crushing season.

The day Panickan got his bonanza, the evenings were more entertaining, especially for the neighbourhood (no one had a radio then.)  Panickan that evening visited the കള്ളു ഷാപ്പ് Kallu Shappu (Toddy Bar).  (Toddy is an alcoholic beverage made from the sap of palm trees by fermentation).  He returned home drunk by nightfall and sang folk and devotional songs with such endearing passion that I can still feel the melody wafting through the still air.  The way he used to sing will put some of today’s professional singers to shame.  His favourite songs were the one he sang in praise of Lord Aiyyappa of Sabarimala. 

For the current generation, sugarcane cultivation in Kottayam is history.

Daffodils and Hyacinths : 2024

Daffodils, also known by their botanical name Narcissus, are the first flowers to bloom in our garden. The name originates from the Latin word affodill which comes from the Greek word asphodelus, which refers to a genus of flowers that emerge from fleshy rhizomes. It is believed that the Dutch put de, meaning the, in front of the word affodill, which eventually led to the name Daffodil.

Daffodils symbolise rebirth, new beginnings, hope, joy, and good luck. This symbolism could be because daffodils emerge first every spring to light up barren landscapes with their cheerful yellow, orange, and white flowers.

The centre of a Daffodil is a crown-like structure called a trumpet and is also known a Corona! 

Daffodils are the official tenth wedding anniversary flower. Chinese believe that if the Daffodils bloom for the Chinese New Year, it will bring luck to the whole household.

The Hyacinth bloom early spring accompanying the Daffodils and is a member of the asparagus family.

According Greek mythology legend, a young Hyacinth was killed when Apollo and Zephyrus were fighting over his affections. It is said hyacinths sprung up from his spilled blood.

The Hyacinth flower symbolises sport or play. Different coloured hyacinths carry different meanings. The blue Hyacinth signifies sincerity.

Pink hyacinths mean ‘playful joy’ while the purple flowers symbolise deep regret and white represents love and prayer.

Welcome Spring 2024

When proud-pied April, dressed in all his trim, April hath put a spirit of youth in everything, – Sonnet 98: From you have I been absent in the spring by William Shakespeare.

That is what the spirit of spring brings to each one of us. In Spring, the earth laughs in flowers.  It brings in cheer and happiness.  It is a reminder to us about the warmer days ahead.  If we did not have the freezing winter, the spring will never be so pleasant. 

We enjoy everyday of Spring more because it is the weather of birds chirping; bees flying from flower to flower collecting nectar; butterflies fluttering showing off their colourful wings.

The first blooms of spring always make my heart sing as the flowers never worry about how they are going to bloom. They bloom and turn toward the light and that makes them beautiful.

To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow and at the end of the day in the Spring, I smell like dirt. The very first flowers that appear in our garden at the onset of Spring are on the Weeping Pussy Willow. The Salix Caprea ‘Pendula’ is commonly known as the Goat Willow or Weeping Pussy Willow, which belongs to the Caprea genus of flowering trees.

The soft coating of hairs acts as insulation to protect these early bloomers from cold temperatures. Most other willows make similar flowers, and since they’re among the very first to bloom, they’re especially delightful—they signal the onset of spring. The tree derives its name from these soft silver tufts that resemble tiny cats’ paws, feeling so much like fur.

Among the fruit trees in our garden, the first to bloom are the apricots.

The pale pink and fragrant flowers are 5-petaled and appear singularly or in pairs.  Cultivation of apricot trees in China dates back 3000 years. From there apricot trees spread west throughout central Asia into Armenia. The Romans introduced apricots to Europe in 70-60 BC through Greece and Italy. Apricot trees probably moved to the US through English settlers on the East Coast,

Solar Eclipse: 08 Apr 2024

Eclipses and transits are astronomical events where a celestial body partially or totally covers another celestial object.  The term eclipse also finds its roots in ancient Greek—it comes from the word ékleipsis, meaning to fail or to abandon.

Eclipses, solar and lunar, have fascinated scientists and laypeople for centuries. In ancient times, eclipses were seen as phenomena to be feared – many cultures came up with stories and myths to explain the temporary darkening of the Sun or the Moon.

The story of eclipses in Hindu mythology dates to the Samudra Manthan (churning pf the ocean,) as described in both Bhagawat and Vishnu Puranas. After the Amrit or elixir of immortality was churned out of the ocean, the Devas (Gods) used the Apsara Mohini to trick the Asuras (Demons) out of its share. One of the Asuras, Svarbhanu, disguised himself as a Deva, and sat between the Sun and the Moon for a drink of the elixir.

When Vishnu came closer, the Sun and the Moon revealed that Svarbhanu was a demon. By this time Svarbhanu had already sipped on the drink. Vishnu immediately cut off his head. Since the demon had already swallowed a bit of the nectar, his head became immortal. The head became Rahu and the body became Ketu. It is believed that from time to time, Rahu catches up with the Sun and the Moon, and swallows them. The incident doesn’t last long because Rahu has no hands to grab onto these two celestial Gods.

Rahu and Ketu denote the points of intersection of the paths of the Sun and the Moon as they move on the imaginary celestial sphere with the earth at the centre and are respectively called the North and the South lunar nodes. Eclipses occur when the Sun and the Moon are at one of these points, giving rise to the understanding of swallowing of the Sun and the Moon by Rahu and Ketu.

The Gospel of Luke 23:45 for the sun stopped shining and the curtain of the temple was torn in two. Mark 15:32 Let this Messiah, this king of Israel, come down now from the cross, that we may see and believe. Those crucified with him also heaped insults on him.  33 At noon, darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon.

However, the biblical details do not accord with an eclipse: a solar eclipse could not have occurred on or near the Passover, when Jesus was crucified.  A solar Eclipse lasts for around seven minutes and is too brief to account for three hours of darkness.

A solar eclipse can only happen during the New Moon when the Moon passes between the Sun and Earth. Similarly, a Lunar Eclipse during the Full Moon. Although there is a New Moon every 29 ½ days, there are usually only two or three solar eclipses each year. That’s because the Moon’s orbit is tipped 5 degrees to Earth’s, so the Moon’s shadow misses Earth during most New Moons. Though the diameter of the Sun is 400 times that of the Moon, but it is also 400 times further away, which results in the Path of Totality. This path is typically 16,000 kilometers long but only 160 kilometers wide. To witness the Sun totally eclipsed by the Moon you must be in the path of totality.

The total solar eclipse in Niagara Falls, was ranked #11 on National Geographic’s Best of the World list for travel adventures.   The mayor of Niagara Falls declared a state of emergency in the region as a precautionary measure ahead of an expected large influx of people who came to observe the total solar eclipse. Officials were concerned that the large congregation could overwhelm traffic, emergency services and cellphone networks. More than half a million people flocked to the border city, home to the iconic waterfall, to witness the wonder.

Mississauga and the Greater Toronto Area, we are a few kilometres outside the Path of Totality, where the eclipse was about 99.86%.  It was a cloudy day; hence we could not observe the eclipse in full. The eclipse began around 2:00 PM, with totality at 3:18 PM and lasted around three minutes. 

At 2:00 PM, slowly and laboriously, the moon’s shadow ate into the sun during the next hour.  It was a gradual darkening of the sky as a second sunset began around 3:15 PM. At 3:18PM, nearing totality, the diamond ring effect was seen, when all but a tiny glaring dot of sunlight was visible, accompanied by a ring of light around the moon’s darkened face. After three minutes, the moon’s shadow slowly receded and the sun slowly began to reappear. After another hour, the sky had brightened again,

Reminising about the Total Solar Eclipse of16 February 1980, during our Third Semester at the national Defence Academy (NDA,) where many Cadets and Officers took it as an unwelcome and evil event which they presumed affected their lives negatively and they had to be protected from its evil effects.  It was a Saturday but was declared a national holiday as many feared that even the residual light entering the rooms may have adverse effects on the human body, especially the eyes.

To ensure people remained indoors, Doordarshan -the only TV channel then – screened the popular Hindi movie Chupke Chupke.  The England Cricket Team was playing the Bombay Test and due to the Solar Eclipse, both cricket boards decided the Second Day as the Rest Day.

We were all ordered to make our cabins into total blackout by placing our blankets on the windows. We were ordered to lock ourselves in the room until the evil receded. Special Duty Officers were posted in the Squadrons to ensure that the orders were strictly adhered to. The Academy for the first time in its history came to a near standstill.  All roads were deserted; Gole market closed; there were no humans sighted anywhere. 

Only a few diehard Cadets, immune to superstitions and blind beliefs, ventured to sneak a view of the eclipsed Sun through the side of their cabin windows.  I managed two sheets of blank X-Ray sheets from the Mallu X-Ray Technician at the Military Hospital, folded it as my suns-hield to view the eclipse.  Our classmate Late Commander VS Ranganathan and our senior Commander Rangarajan from Sainik School Amaravathi Nagar (TN) were members of the Astronomy Club.  They were lucky to view the eclipse through the telescope atop the Science Block and photograph the event.

Home – The Cradle of Leadership

When our son Nikhil was commissioned to the Canadian Army, I asked him, “What is the contribution of the Canadian Education system in turning you into a leader?”

Nikhil answered, “It all begins at home and is nurtured at home.  We go to school to gain knowledge, fight, resolve issues, refine our social and communication skills etc.  Ultimately it is the family that defines what a person is.

The ideas suggested below have worked with our family, earlier in the Indian Army environment and now in the Canadian environment. It is neither a remedy nor pill for success nor Dummies for Good Parenting. You may accept some, modify some and reject some based on your judgment.

Parenting.   We all want to raise children who will be able to raise even better children than we were able to. This incremental improvement in parenting will lead to better societies, to more progress and better understanding between the people.

Parent Child Communication.  Good communication is the bedrock of a strong family.  Please click to read Importance of Parent-Child Communication.

Decision Making.   Children must be allowed to make decisions at a young age.  It could be the colour pattern of the home, plants for the home garden, selection of a restaurant for the family outing, movie to be watched, etc.

Adventure Activities.   Parents must take children for as many adventure activities as possible.  We participated in Marathons and climbed CN Tower as a family.  Please click to read Climbing the CN Tower.

We went on camping trips to the wilderness of Ontario. Some of the lessons we learnt during our camping activities are: –

  • Be prepared to cope with inconvenience, especially washrooms. The parents must lead by example with a positive can-do attitude.
  • Ensure that all children are involved in meaningful camp chores like gathering firewood, collecting water from the tap, etc.
  • Teach the campers about the knots, hitches, and lashings as it will save a lot of time in tent pitching.
  • Pitch the tent in your backyard the previous weekend. This will teach the campers about tent pitching, managing space inside the tent, entry and exit without letting insects in.
  • Basic survival skills—such as building a simple shelter, making a fire, tying a knot, fishing, and berry picking—are all useful skills that may come in handy one day. Such activities are great for teaching cooperation, empowerment, and leadership.

Encourage Risky Play.  Children must be encouraged to take risks.  Not taking any risks is today’s risk. Please read Risky Play.

Play Chess with the Children.  It teaches children the art of planning and forethought.  Fit for all ages. Please click here to read.

Personal Finance.  Include children while planning family finances.  They must be aware of how much the parents earn and how that money is spent.  How to make and stick to a budget, how to save, how to invest, how to establish credit, how to manage bill payments, how to fill a tax return – these essential skills children will only learn if they participate in the family financial planning. When our children began to work from high-school days, every hard-earned penny was important to them, and they had to file their tax returns.

Employment and Networking.   Teach the children how to write a resume and cover letter. Teach them the importance of social and professional networking and give them the tools to make those connections. Remind them that their social media posts will probably be seen by the hiring manager googling your name.

Using Appropriate Terms to Describe Body Parts.   Many children and even adults are embarrassed to use the correct names, especially for sexual organs. Please read It’s Natural, Biological and Not the Stork.

Sex Education.   The most difficult subject for many parents to broach with their teenage children, but once you take the first bold step towards it, it becomes easier and will be a rewarding experience. Studies indicate that adolescents whose parents talk to them about sex tend to be less sexually active and more likely to use an effective means of contraception. Many parents are not able to provide all the information about sex that young people need. Only a few ever got a good idea from their parents that helped them talk about sexual issues with their girlfriend/ boyfriend.  Parents must be the primary source of information about sexual and reproductive health for their children and not what they learn from their friends or through media or from the internet. Our son’s favourite line being “All my thirst for sex was quenched the day I discussed it with my dad.”

Consent.   It is about teaching respect, to be aware of personal boundaries, the body, space, and touch. For older students, discussions can delve into sexuality, relationships, and communication.

Mental and Physical Health.   Healthy Mind in a Healthy Body is an age-old adage which to date stands good. While physical education is often covered, many schools ignore students’ mental health. Mental health issues often develop during the school-age years. Children must be helped in coping techniques for stress and depression such as meditation and mindfulness.  At home, talk about taboo topics like addiction and suicide, and make them destigmatise mental health issues.

Behavioral Sciences.   A must to make our children understand their minds better. Discussions at home about behavioral science can help them understand what motivates them, why they make the decisions they do. Helping them to set their aims and goals based on their dreams and aspirations is a parental duty. Please click here for Dreams, Aims and Goals

Stress Management.   “What is the most important aspect of growing up as a high-school student?” I asked Nikhil.  “Stress management,” came a prompt reply.  “High-school life is all about managing stress – academic stress, parental stress, peer stress.  Thank you, Dad, I did not have any stress from my parents.

How to Speak in Public and Sell an Idea.   Confident children will make quality friends, gain the trust of partners or employers.  They must articulate in such a way that it makes sense to the listeners. Voice modulation is an important aspect of it and the children must be trained at it.  Please click here to read about it.

Profanity.  Parents must set an example and children will follow.  How to help teens overcome profanity, please click here.

Time Management and Discipline.   Both our children said their time management skills helped them to be successful high-school and university students.  One got to be on time for the class, for your submissions etc; otherwise, one is sure to lose marks. They had to ensure on-time submission, even if the work was incomplete and may not be of the standard wished – this fetched them some marks than getting none.

First Aid.   First-aid training is a lifesaving skill that children can use throughout their lives. If taught at home, it will prepare students to help their classmates and family members in the event of an emergency.  Please click here.

Voting.   Low percent voter turnout in recent elections all over the world can be attributed to lack of awareness among voting-age children. Parents must teach children about citizenship and participation in the democratic process, history of voting and as to how each one’s vote counts.

Cooking.   Joint cooking sessions at our home were both chaotic and fun. Cooking taught them about food, nutrition, and diet.  For further reading, please click here.

Gardening.   Growing food is a hands-on experience for children to learn about where food comes from, develop healthy eating habits, get some outdoor exercise, and work together to accomplish a goal.

Home Maintenance.   Children must be taught the basics of home maintenance. They must be capable of changing a light bulb to driving a nail on the wall.  This will arm the children with practical, empowering skills that they can use for a lifetime.

Car or Bike Maintenance.   As they grow up, our children will drive a car or ride a bike.  It will be a good idea to learn how to maintain them. Practical skills like learning how to change a flat tire, change the oil in the car, or replace the brake pads on your bike will foster a sense of empowerment, self-confidence, and accomplishment.  Who other than parents can impart such training?

Religion.  Religion must be discussed at home.  Both evolution and creation of humankind must be discussed. Meditation must be practised as a calming mental exercise, not a path to enlightenment.  Teaching about world religions is the better approach, as it erases stereotypes of religious minorities and fill a pressing need to reduce ignorance about religion.

Human and Animal Rights.  Incorporating human and animal rights during discussions can be a good way to prevent bullying, discrimination, and promote inclusion and respect for diversity.  Make children aware that no matter our ethnicity, gender, colour, religion, language, sexual orientation, or any other status, we are all equally entitled to our human rights without discrimination.  Having a pet or two at home will encourage children to be empathetic to animals.

Gender Identity.   Children should know whether you identify as male, female, transgender, non-binary, gender-neutral, or anything else, gender identity affects us all. Tackling issues head-on can help the next generation learn to be more kind, open, and understanding.

Media Literacy.   In the era of fake news, teaching critical thinking and media literacy at home is more important than ever. Children must be capable of sifting through it all with a critical eye.  Please read To Post or not to.

Digital Etiquette.   So much of Childrens’ lives are spent online, making it essential to teach digital etiquette at home. From protecting their privacy to avoiding digital drama, children need to learn how to treat others with respect online, avoid cyber-bullying, and safeguard themselves from online predators.

Alcohol and Marijuana.  Countries like Canada have made both legal with strict Minimum Legal Drinking Age (MLDA.) In Canada MLDA is 19 years, but children device dubious means to get around it.  How we trode through it, Please click here.

A family is not a private limited company of the parents but is a public company where the parents and children all have equal stakes. Along with the stakes comes duties and responsibilities. It is mandatory for the parents to ensure that they do their bit and that the children do theirs.  Making the children do chores at home, making them participate in all family activities, ensuring that their academic pursuits are successful, encouraging them to pursue their hobbies and interest and their sporting interests and above all communicating with them to achieve the aforesaid is what the parents got to do.

A home should be a safe place where the children can mess up.  It is not a place for perfection.  The parents must guide the children to come out of the mess they create so that they are better prepared to face the world outside full of hatred, judgment, sarcasm, and violence.  

A home should be a retreat where the members can find comfort, rest, and healing.  A place where children can return after a difficult event or a failure, where they will not be rebuked or made fun of.

Trust and Turnout  

A decade and a half ago, Veteran Major General Jambusarwalla and Mrs. Hufreez Jambusarwalla visited Niagara Falls, US side.  We all decided to meet them there as they did not have a Canadian Visa. Our children were very excited to meet the General as they had heard from their dad a great deal about the wonderful human being and adorable military leader worthy of emulation. It is believed that on the first day of raising the Artillery Division, the General called his two principal staff officers and said to them, “To be efficient the formation must first be happy. You look after the happiness part and I the efficiency part.

 Much as the General requested us not to bother, I wasn’t going to miss this opportunity to meet someone whom I so admired and more so I wanted the children to meet him. On the appointed day, we set out from home, crossed the international border and reached the hotel where the couple were to check-in. We received them there, and on meeting us, the General quipped with characteristic humour, “What better can a retired General from the Indian Army ask for at the Niagara Falls than a General Salute from a Colonel and family.” We then had dinner and shared a couple of wonderful hours together. The children were overwhelmed by the couple’s warmth and love.

One anecdote that he narrated particularly warmed the cockles of my heart. Interacting with Nikhil the General said, “Your Dad was arrogant and a bit of it did rub on his soldiers.”

“You can’t be serious Sir!” I interjected.

In a positive way, I must add,” said the General and he narrated an incident that occurred while he was the Commandant at the School of Artillery and our Regiment – 125 SATA Regiment – a cooperating unit with the School.

“Most evenings Hufreez and I went on a long walk in the cantonment.  Generally, the soldiers walking in the opposite direction conveniently turned left or right as they understandably preferred not to confront a General.   Few soldiers with a bit of instilled confidence walked past us smartly with a greeting. One evening, when two soldiers crossed us with a smart greeting, I said to Hufreez, ‘They are from 125 SATA.’ She wasn’t convinced and said that possibly I was needlessly over-impressed with the Commanding Oficer. The next evening a similar event occurred. When two soldiers crossed us, I summoned them after they greeted us and I asked them, ‘Which Regiment are you from?’

Both said in unison ‘Sir, 125 SATA Regiment,’ visibly proud and confident.”

While driving back, our son Nikhil said that the General was so down-to-earth and that he did not fit into the frame of a General that he had in mind. He was expecting a rigid, tall and a perfect military figure from what he had heard about him, but what he experienced was a simple human being full of energy, warmth and lots of humour, who came down to a kid’s level to enable a smooth and easy interaction. Nikhil summed up his final opinion with a statement – He is very Napoleonic.

Great things in your life will mostly come in short packets. One’s got to look for them, identify them, explore them, imbibe them and learn from them,” was my reply.

As I continued to drive homeward, I reminisced about the unit I commanded and my effort to transform the outlook of the boys. On assuming command of the Regiment while we were deployed in Rajasthan in 2002, my first command order was a somewhat quixotic one about dress code for soldiers.  Please click here to read.

On returning to Devlali after the operational deployment, I was irked by the number of worthless documents/registers that the unit maintained. The first to be thrown out the window was the Out Pass Register. To my mind, Out Pass is the vestige of the British Indian Army where the officers – mostly British – did not have the requisite faith in the Indian soldiers. They had to instill checks and procedures to reduce their movements in civil areas, particularly with a view to minimise the effect of any possible subversive influence.

We did away with the Out Pass Register as I had complete trust in our soldiers that they will abide by orders and instructions and will conduct themselves in a soldierly manner when outside the Regiment, more so under the pressure of such a trust. The need to treat them as soldiers worthy of trust rather than as jail inmates was foremost in my thoughts. The soldiers’ trust in the command echelons too increased manifold by this action that they realised their actions should not bring any blot on the Regiment. Instructions were passed that any soldier leaving the Regimental area only needed to inform his Section/ Platoon Commander about his going out and the likely time of return. It was a little thing with a big impact.

The only covenant was that they should all be smartly turned out in their Sunday best – pants, full-sleeved shirt tucked in, belt and leather shoes, well groomed hair, aptly perfumed.

One morning when I complimented the Stick Orderly – Gunner Deepak Pathak on his turnout, he replied, “Sir your orders on out-pass and soldiers’ turnout have gone down well with everyone. Even  Havildar Dharambir (Kabaddi Team Captain and Soccer Team Vice Captain – Please click here to read more about Havildar Dharambir) has shed his favourite Kurta-Pyjamas and now wears full-sleeved shirts and pants.”

Are the Indian Navy’s sonars and radars switched On?

For more about Gen Jambusarwalla, please click here.

Reel Vs Real Heroes

Watched the Malayalam movie മഞ്ഞുമ്മൽ (Manjummal) Boys in Canada.  It was released world over on 22 Feb 2024.  The movie was received well all over Kerala, but everyone was surprised by the response from the viewers in Tamizh Nadu. 

The release of the movie coincided with the release of a Thamizh movie with a superstar. Still, the movie did very well.  It was because the movie is based on a cave in Kodaikkanal in Thamizh Nadu, known until the release of Kamal Haasan’s 1991 film குணா (Gunaa) as Devil’s Kitchen.  Post Gunaa’s release, the cave became known as Gunaa Caves and it attracted many adventurists.  Today, the Forest Department has fenced the area off.

The movie is about a real cave rescue when one of the 11 in the group accidentally fell into the cave.  It is reported that over 15 people have fallen through this cave and only one was rescued.  The movie is about that rescue.

A group of 11 young men, belonging to a sports club in a sleepy hamlet of Manjummal in Kerala set out on a trip to Kodaikkanal.  En-route, they buy a CD containing the theme song of Gunaa and plays it in their van.  This song becomes the backdrop of the movie.

The Arts & Sports Clubs in Kerala is an association of the youth of Kerala and every village in Kerala has two or more such clubs.  They survive on contributions from the locals and there is no government funding.  The Clubs promote games ranging from Cricket, Soccer, Volleyball, Native Ball (A game limited to only Kerala,) to Boat Race teams.  These clubs stand as an icon of communal harmony of Kerala with members who are Hindus, Christians and Muslims.

Tug-of-War teams are the pride of these Clubs and there are many competitions held all over Kerala and these Clubs fight it out there.  The competitions are sponsored by local businesses and people.  Here too, there is no government funding. Keralites in USA and Canada too have raised such Arts & Sports clubs.

Theses Arts & Sports Clubs are mostly subscribed by men, but generally have a female name.  In this movie it is ദർശന (Darshana.)  The club members are generally around 25 years of age, but there will be a patron who is the leader and mentor and he is generally around 35.  It will also have a set or two of siblings or cousins.

As per the season or when an event where they are to participate approaches, they conduct daily practices.  The patron is the coach and at times call in for an experienced old-time player from the village as a coach.  The uniform and expenses for training again comes in as voluntary contributions.

The movie begins with a Tug-of-War between two teams.  It is between the Reel Manjummal Boys and the Real Manjummal boys. The Reel Manjummel boys now set out on their adventure trip to Kodaikkanal with the Gunaa Song in the background.

On their journey to Kodaikkanal, the opening stanza of the song plays.  I wondered as to how the director will connect it with this movie. The original song in the movie Gunaa is between a man madly in love with a woman, but in this movie, the director has successfully integrated the song to depict love between friends – which mortals cannot understand, which is much beyond that – both pure and holy.

கண்மணி அன்போட காதலன், நான் எழுதும் கடிதமே,
Kanmani anboada kaadhalan,Naan ezhuthum kadithame,
Apple of my eye, with great affection and love, I write this love letter.

பொன்மணி  உண் வீட்டில் சௌக்கியமா? நான் இங்கு  சௌக்கியமே.
Ponmani un veetil sowkiyamaa? Naan ingu sowkiyamae.
Oh love, are you fine in your house? Don’t worry, I am fine here.

உன்னை எண்ணி பார்க்கையில் கவிதை கொட்டுது,
Unnai enni paarkkaiyil kavithai kottuthu,
The anticipation of seeing you, pours poetry,

அதை எழுத நினைக்கையில் வார்த்தை முட்டுது,
Adhai ezhutha ninaikkaiyil vaarthai mouttuthu,
When I think of writing it, words are stuck.     

The next stanza is played after the victim is saved from the cave.

உன்தான காயம் யாவும், தன்னாலே ஆறி போகும்,
Unthaana kaayam yaavum, Thannaalae aari poagum,
My wounds heal themselves,

மாயம் என்ன பொன்மானே பொன்மானே,
Maayam enna ponmaanae ponmaanae,
What magic is this, my love my love,

என்ன காயம் ஆன போதும், என் மேனி தாங்கி கொள்ளும்,
Enna kaayam aana podhum, en maeni thanki kollum,
My body can bear all wounds,

உந்தன் மேனி தாங்காது செந்தேனே,
Unthan meni thaankaadhu senthene,
Honey, you can’t bear them,

எந்தன் காதல் என்னவென்று சொல்லாமல், ஏங்க ஏங்க அழுகை  வந்தது,
Enthan kaathal ennavendru sollaamal, enka enka azhugai vanthathu,
I cry because I didn’t express my love to you,

எந்தன் சோகம் உன்னை தாக்கும்,
Enthan sokam unnai thaakkum,
I do not want my sorrow to hurt you,

எண்றேனும்போது வந்த அழுகை நின்றது,
Endrenumbothu vandha alugai nindrathu,
My tears stop at that moment,

மனிதர் உணர்ந்து கொள்ள, இது மனித காதல் அல்ல,
Manithar unarndhu kolla, Idhu manitha kaathal alla,
Humans will not understand this mortal love,

அதையும் தாண்டி புனிதமானது.
Athaiyum thaandi punithamaanathu,
This is beyond that, pure and holy.

Gunaa was released in 1991 and like most Kamal Hasan movies, it was much ahead of its time. Manjummal Boys has prompted the trade for a re-release of Gunaa – after 33 years of its making. Manjummal Boys’ is a tribute to Gunaa.

Risky Play

The Canadian Paediatric Society has released new guidance for unstructured, outdoor play for children, emphasizing how important risky play can be for their health and well-being.[1]  The report finds risky play can improve physical, mental, and social health, and help prevent or manage health conditions like obesity, anxiety, and behavioural issues.

During our vacation to our native place in Kerala in October 2019, standing next to our ancestral home, I could see in my mind’s eye the front courtyard where once a Guava tree stood, leaning on to the roof.  I narrated to Marina as to how we as kids – I was less than ten years old – used to climb the Guava tree to leap on to the roof, may be to pick up a ball that had got caught on the roof tile or just for fun.  Marina then came out with a story of a similar Guava tree in her ancestral home and how she executed many similar monkey tricks.

The mere sight of the high roof sent a chill up my spine as I could not even fathom my climbing it now.  The thought struck me that perhaps I would never even have permitted our children the fun of climbing on such a tree and get on to the roof.  The question that intrigued me was ‘How come parents of those days allowed their children such (mis)adventures?‘   After we children grew up into our teens, our father cut the guava tree in 1976 as it was posing a threat to the very existence of the tiles on the roof. Moreover, we children had grown too old to climb on the rooftop to clear the fallen leaves, a periodic ritual.

Opportunities for children to engage in outdoor free play have declined significantly in recent years due to parental worries about play-related injuries.  Television, Internet, electronic gizmos – all have turned the children into lazy people. During our childhood, we never reported any minor play related injuries to our parents, else it invited harsh punishments and restrictions.  The fun of our childhood pranks was all about the thrills of beating the hazards & risks and reducing the chance of getting caught by our parents or neighbours.

United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child has listed children’s right to play as a fundamental right[2].

It is the duty of the parents to ensure that the safety of their children only as much as necessary.  They must be aware of the child’s abilities and confidence but the thrill and uncertainty of playing at heights, speeds, wilderness, dark nights, etc are beneficial, so are supervised activities like wall climbing, animal petting, camping, trekking, etc.

What is risky play?

Risky play is defined as thrilling and exciting forms of free play that involve uncertainty of outcome and a possibility of physical injury.  It includes: –

  • Playing at Height   :   Climbing, jumping, balancing at height
  • Playing at Speed   :   Bicycling at high speed, sledding, sliding, running
  • Play Involving Tools   :   Supervised activities involving an axe, saw, knife, hammer, or ropes
  • Playing near fire or water
  • Rough-and-tumble play, Wrestling, play fighting, fencing with sticks
  • Exploring play spaces, neighbourhoods, or woods without adult supervision, or in the case of young children, with limited supervision

Risky play is essential for children’s development and for their physical, mental, and social health. Restrictive rules about play at home, daycare or school have impacted children’s health. During risky play, children learn to recognise and evaluate challenges, which will in turn help them develop confidence in their decisions and abilities. Risky play can also help children with disabilities develop autonomy and reduce social exclusion.

The children got to experience and recognise the risks while outdoors, near water and fire.  Trekking through the forests, camping overnight at camp sites will teach them to recognise such risks and learn how to manage it – all under parental supervision.

It does not mean that parents must push their children ignoring safety measures and leaving children unsupervised in hazardous areas.  The parents must be aware of the hazards and be ready to intervene if there is any potential harm.

Risk is inherent to free play. When children play spontaneously, they may choose to push boundaries and test limits. Risky play encourages creative, spontaneous play, first by eliminating hazards, then by supporting risk-taking that is chosen and controlled by the child and appropriate to her/his experience and ability.

The biggest risk is not taking any risk… In a world that changing really quickly, the only strategy that is guaranteed to fail is not taking risks. – Mark Zuckerberg 
Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” – T. S. Eliot 


[1] https://cps.ca/en/documents/position/outdoor-risky-play  Healthy childhood development through outdoor risky play: Navigating the balance with injury prevention | Canadian Paediatric Society (cps.ca)

[2] https://www.unicef.org/child-rights-convention Convention on the Rights of the Child | UNICEF

Cabin Crew – Arm Doors and Cross Check

2024 began with incidents involving aircraft doors in North America. On 07 January 2024, the door plug from an Alaskan Airlines Boeing 737 Max came off about 10 minutes after it took off from Portland International Airport.  The aircraft was at about 16,000 feet when the incident occurred.  After about 20 minutes, the aircraft made an emergency landing at Portland Airport safely.

The door plugs are inserted where emergency exit doors would be located.  The plug is secured in place by bolts that prevent the mechanism from moving upward on rollers when the plane is in flight.

The blowout created a partial vacuum inside the aircraft that twisted the metal of the seats nearby, and snatched cellphones, headsets and even the shirt off the teenager’s back.  Luckily, the two seats closest to the blown-out hole were unoccupied.

The Fasten Seat-belt sign was on at the time of the incident and the seat-belt saved the teenager.  The pilot generally keeps the sign on until reaching cruising altitude. Different airlines have different policies on turning off the sign – some until reaching cruising altitude, some at 18,000 feet and some at 10,000 feet – if the pilots feel it safe.

The oxygen masks dropped immediately, and the flight attendants moved passengers from the area where the blowout occurred. The roaring wind was so loud that passengers could hardly hear the captain’s announcements.

The pilot immediately descended to 10,000 feet, where there is enough oxygen for everyone onboard to breathe.  If the blowout had happened a few minutes later, after the plane reached cruising altitude, the accident might have become a tragedy.

A passenger on an Air Canada flight from London, UK, to Toronto allegedly tried to open the aircraft doors mid-flight on 21 January 2024.  He had to be restrained by the crew as part of their flight and safety protocols, which allowed for the flight to continue normally to Toronto.

Police entered the aircraft once the plane landed and found the passenger, an elderly man, in a state of crisis and confusion.  The Police said, “It does not appear that his actions were intentional.” The Police did not lay any criminal charges.

Is it possible to open the doors of an aircraft mid-flight?

It is not possible to open aircraft doors at high altitude as the doors are designed to act as a plug that takes advantage of the differences in internal and external air pressure to create a secure seal. Try opening the pressure cooker at home when it is under pressure!!!

“Cabin crew – arm doors and cross check” – You will hear this from the cockpit, over the aircraft’s Public Address System at the start of every flight as the aircraft starts to push back from the gate. It means that the door is ready for use in an emergency evacuation.  Once armed, if the door is opened, the escape slide or raft will deploy and inflate – in less than six seconds.

An aircraft is pushed back from the gate by a tractor to avoid the need for reverse thrust from the engines. Reverse thrust requires high engine power and creates a high-speed jet blast. This blast can distribute debris that can cause injuries to ground crew and may damage airport terminals, aero-bridges, and ground vehicles.

After landing, you will hear the pilot ask the crew to “Cabin Crew – disarm all doors,” (there is no Check Back here) meaning that the emergency slide has been deactivated.

On 08 January 2024, a passenger with Air Canada was injured after he opened the cabin door and fell out of the plane onto Toronto Airport’s tarmac on a flight to Dubai, resulting in a six-hour delay. The man boarded the aircraft, but instead of going to his seat, opened the cabin door at the opposite end of the plane and jumped on to the tarmac.  He sustained minor injuries and was attended to by the emergency services.  As per Police, the man was in a state of crisis when the incident occurred and suffered relatively minor injuries. He was apprehended by police and transported to a local hospital for treatment.

Confrontations on flights have increased since the pandemic started, with some altercations captured and replayed on social media.

Passengers do become anxious with the onset usually prior to boarding and continues throughout the flight, with more reports of anxiety on longer flights. In one unusual case, a man complained of physical ill-health, which resulted in diversion of the plane for his hospitalisation. He was diagnosed with ‘Jet-set Munchausen Syndrome.’

Munchausen’s syndrome is named after a German aristocrat, Baron Munchausen, who became famous for telling wild, unbelievable tales about his exploits and past. Munchausen Syndrome is when someone tries to get attention and sympathy by falsifying, inducing, and/or exaggerating an illness. They lie about symptoms, manipulate medical tests, or harm themselves. Diagnosing and treating Munchausen syndrome is difficult because of the patient’s dishonesty. In simple military terms – it is Shamming.

As per a study by Miller, Warren & Zarcone, Vincent. (1968), Psychiatric Behavior Disorders at an International Airport – suicidal ideation – may occur during flight in people who are mentally unwell. On rare occasions, the aircraft itself is used as the means of suicide.

Lester, D (2002) in an article Suicide and Aircraft Crisis in The Journal of Crisis Intervention and Suicide Prevention, describes two instances of commercial aircraft crashing because of a suicidal passenger killing the pilot and co-pilot, resulting in the death of all the passengers. In each case the perpetrator had purchased life insurance, presumably to benefit his family. Disappearance of Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370 on 08 March 2014 will arise in the reader’s mind.

Another psychotic behaviour is Airport Wandering. In certain psychotic patients whose conflicts relate to separation and reunion demonstrate a causal relationship between airport settings and ideas relating to abandonment and reuniting with family. They may be found wandering in various airports around the world.

Although the frequency of psychiatric emergencies is much lower than that of other medical emergencies in-flight, the public is likely to be less tolerant of such incidents. Control of disturbed behaviour in an aircraft poses much greater potential hazards than on the ground. Seriously dangerous incidents in the air are fortunately statistically rare but have a high public impact.

In future, Will there be a need to prove psychological stability prior to boarding an aircraft?  Or Will the airlines screen the passengers for psychological stability?

Christmas Travel

This Christmas vacation, we travelled to the United States to visit our relatives.  Christmas was as usual celebrated at our daughter Nidhi’s place on 25 Dec.  We gave thanks to the God for ensuring that we had a fruitful year. Early morning of 26 Dec, we set out from Toronto Airport to Washington. 

As we were packing our bags, our son Nikhil said that he will take care of the baggage.  He said that as a member of the Canadian Armed Forces, he is allowed three pieces of baggage.  Thus, Marina and I packed one suitcase; Nidhi, her husband Jay and our grandson James packed one suitcase; Nikhil and his wife Rain packed one.

Immediately, I checked the Air Canada website and it said ‘Members of the Canadian military benefit from an enhanced baggage allowance whenever they travel on a flight operated by Air Canada. Eligible active and retired members of the Canadian military are entitled to check up to three pieces of checked baggage, each weighing up to 32 kg (70 lb) each.  The allowance is applicable to the member of the military and is valid for both personal and duty travel.’

WestJet, a private Canadian airline also offers military baggage allowance for active and veteran Canadian military personnel for personal or business reasons. Canadian Armed Forces members are allowed to travel with up to four bags.  They also do not charge overweight/and or oversized bag fees.

Porter, another Canadian private airline also offers baggage allowance. Canadian military personnel are eligible for an enhanced baggage allowance. Baggage fees will be waived for up to three pieces of checked baggage.

Another Canadian ultra-low-cost airline, Swoop, also offers exemptions for military baggage.  According to Swoop’s website, any active or veteran Canadian military personnel are entitled to two checked bags free and one carry-on bag free.

Canada’s women and men in uniform have made an unwavering commitment to defend Canada and Canadians, and they deserve the same solid support from their government. Canada’s new defence policy provides the resources and capabilities our members need to succeed in their missions both at home and abroad.” Parliamentary Secretary Sherry Romanado

Conical Flag or Honourable Flag

A flag is a piece of cloth which can be attached to a pole, which is used as a sign, signal, or symbol of something, especially of a particular country.  It is normally flown at full most – atop a pole.

The national flag is the highest and most recognisable symbol of national pride, a symbol of a nation’s glory. It displays the sense of belonging and pride to the citizens. Certain flag etiquettes and norms are attached to the use of the national flag. The flag is to be prepared and used according to the prescribed size, dimensions and colour. It should never touch the ground. If a flag is damaged, torn or discoloured, then it must be disposed off in a dignified manner according to the rules.

Recently, I have noticed a tendency in the Indian Armed Forces to display the national Flag in a conical shape, especially in offices of senior officers and in auditoriums.  It goes against the basic tenets of the Indian Flag Code.

As per the Indian Flag Code – Para 2.2(v) – When a flag is displayed on a speaker’s platform, it should be flown on the speaker’s right as he faces the audience or flat against the wall, above and behind the speaker.

Indian Flag Code Para 2.2(ix) says that the Flag should not be used as a festoon, rosette or bunting or in any other manner for decoration.

Flags are half-masted as a sign of respect and to express a collective sense of sorrow during a time of national mourning. National flags are recognised throughout the world as the ultimate symbol of their respective nations, the act of half-masting is a dramatic visual statement that speaks to the sense of loss that is shared by all their citizens.

When lowering a flag to the half-mast position, it must first be raised to the masthead (top of the flagpole) then lowered slowly to the half-mast position. To lower a flag that is at the half-mast position, the flag is first hoisted to the masthead, and then lowered completely.

In Canada, Flags placed on a flagpole with cravat on a flagpole with base as a sign of mourning. This practice was customary in former times but has faded in modern times. The flagpole is placed at the entrance of the building (indoors, never outdoors). The flag is draped with a piece of black crepe (ribbon, tied in a bow at the base of the finial. The ends, cut diagonally, should hang halfway down the sleeve of the flag. A cravat is never attached to the National Flag of Canada.

The portion of the US Flag denoting honour is the canton of blue containing the stars representing states and the soldiers. The field of blue dresses from left to right and is inverted only when draped as a funeral cloth over the casket of a soldier/ veteran who has served the US in uniform.

At events, such as military funerals, the US Flag is folded thirteen times.  After the flag is completely folded and tucked in, it has the appearance of a cocked hat, reminding of the soldiers who served under General George Washington, the sailors and marines who served under Naval Commander John Paul Jones. The thirteen folds represent: –

  • The first fold is a symbol of life.
  • The second fold is a symbol of our belief in eternal life.
  • The third fold is made in honour and remembrance of the soldiers/ veterans, who gave a portion of their life for the defence of the country.
  • The fourth fold represents the American citizens trusting in God, it is Him we turn to in times of peace, as well as in times of war, for His divine guidance.
  • The fifth fold is a tribute to the country.
  • The sixth fold is a pledge of allegiance to the flag of the United States of America.
  • The seventh fold is a tribute to the armed forces.
  • The eighth fold is a tribute to the mother.
  • The ninth fold is a tribute to womanhood.
  • The tenth fold is a tribute to father.
  • The eleventh fold represents the lower portion of the seal of King David and King Solomon and glorifies the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
  • The twelfth fold represents an emblem of eternity.
  • The thirteenth and last fold, when the flag is completely folded, the stars are uppermost, reminding USA’s national motto, In God We Trust.

Covering of the dead with flags and carried from the field of battle on a caisson – this custom began during the Napoleonic Wars (1796-1815.)

Paragraph 3.58 of the Indian Flag code states that on occasions of state/ military/ central para- military forces funerals, the flag shall be draped over the bier or coffin with the saffron towards the head of the bier or coffin. The flag shall not be lowered into the grave or burnt in the pyre.

When the U.S. flag covers the casket, it is placed so the union blue field is at the head and over the left shoulder. It is not placed in the grave and is not allowed to touch the ground.

In Canada, being laid to rest with the flag is an honour that is not solely reserved for the funerals of soldiers, veterans and dignitaries; all Canadians are eligible. As the National Flag belongs to all Canadians, any Canadian may choose to have their casket draped with the flag. When draping a casket, the top of the leaf should point to the right and the stem to the left when observing from the foot of the casket.

Historically, during naval warfare or acts of maritime piracy, enemy ships may have deceived their targets by flying the colours of allied nations before hoisting their proper identifying flags at the time of attack. This may be the origin of the expression to show one’s true colours, meaning to reveal one’s true nature after misleading or deceiving behaviour.

The things that the flag stands for were created by the experiences of great people. Everything that it stands for was written by their lives. The flag is the embodiment, not of sentiment, but of history – Thomas Woodrow Wilson, the 28th president of the United States from 1913 to 1921. 

FALIMY : Malayalam Movie Review

Yes! You read it right – it is indeed FALIMY – an anagram for FAMILY. As the anagram says it – it is all about a dysfunctional FAMILY.

An anagram is a word or phrase formed by rearranging the letters of a different word or phrase, typically using all the original letters exactly once. The story writer has skillfully generated interest in the movie by the title itself and it encourages one to watch the movie.  It is worth a watch.

It is about a dysfunctional family on a trip to Banaras.  An old saying – couples fight, relationships take work. Similarly, a family got to work to make it functional.

The movie is about a family where the family members do not see eye to eye.  Such fighting is common with some families, including ours. For the most part, members enjoy a chance to get away, and these moments become fond memories. This happens every time on such unique trips.

When we travel anywhere as a family, the first fight breaks out in five minutes.  It is normal for families to disagree; it happens all the time. However, it is also very normal for families to get along and find a sense of chemistry, despite these various ratios of similarities and dissimilarities.  Not every family gets along all the time. A trip, or a vacation cannot fix what is not working at home.

In the movie, there are many fights and disagreements throughout the journey, with lots of comical and emotional moments.  Comedy is very subtle and a viewer who can identify with such a family or is part of such a family can decipher the humour and enjoy it.

When a family endures many difficult situations, the bonds grow stronger and that is the essence of this movie.  Director Nitish Sahadev has portrayed it brilliantly.

The movie is crafted well with crisp editing by Nidhi Raj and apt background score.  The songs are very meaningful and suit the settings. Kudos to Vishnu Vijay for conveying the mood, pace and add to the tension of every scene.

Bablu Aju’s cinematography supports the film’s themes and emotions. Sunil, the art director has skilfully set the background for various scenes and looks natural. Vaisakh’s costumes were relatable, except for the Sikh Station Master.

The cast of Basil Joseph, Manju Pillai, Jagadish, Sandeep Pradeep and others have done justice to their roles and have acted with serenity.

Unlike many Malayalam movies, the roles of Hindi speaking characters were enacted by Hindi speaking actors.  Banarasi dialect has been effectively used to convey various situations with humour with a local flavour.

Very watchable movie.

Fingerprint

Recently visited the home of one of our patients – an old lady – 89 years old – undergoing dialysis.  She is the widow of an Indian Soldier who retired in 1977.

Tried doing the Jeevan Praman – a biometric enabled digital service for Indian pensioners by capturing her fingerprint. I tried all her ten fingers three times. It always gave an error –Biometric Data did not match!

The lady had her fingerprints registered on the Aadhar system 15 years ago – with age her fingerprints did not change – it does not change for any humans.

It becomes difficult to capture our fingerprints as we age. This is because the skin loses elasticity with age, and the patterns become less prominent due to the thickening of ridges and Valleys (furrows.) The pores of our skin also become less lubricated, which affects the surface of our fingertips.

A permanent scar could alter someone’s fingerprint. There are also specific jobs that can impact fingerprints – construction workers, especially bricklayers and people who wash dishes by hand and people who work with chemicals such as calcium oxide. This is temporary, and once they stop these activities, the ridges grow back.

Certain skin diseases can temporarily alter fingerprints.  Damaged skin – due to burns or corrosion due to chemical interaction – can reproduce cells to form fingerprints exactly as they were before they were damaged unless the cut penetrates the dermis – the inner layer of the two main layers of our skin.

A suggested method to fingerprint for the senior citizens is by Milking the Finger – to raise the fingerprint ridges prior to printing. This technique involves applying pressure or rubbing the fingers in a downward motion from palm to fingertip.  Applying some natural oils may help your finger’s ridges be more visible.  For better results, choose a ring finger or middle finger of the non-dominant hand.

A study published in the July 14, 2015, edition of Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found fingerprint identification becomes less reliable as the time interval between two sets of prints being taken increases, which suggests that the ridges on a person’s fingertips may change slightly over the course of a person’s life.  That is why one must update one’s biometrics.

Some criminals intentionally alter their fingerprints, sometimes on their own and occasionally with the help of medical professionals. These alterations distort their usual fingerprint pattern and make it difficult to identify those fingerprints. The mutilation include cutting lines into the skin, vertically or in a zig-zag pattern, in an attempt to both remove portions of the fingerprint and cause the skin to heal in a fashion which overlaps the old print and alters it significantly. They have also been known to burn their fingerprints using both heat and chemical sources. The intention here is to scar or entirely destroy the fingerprint and prevent identification.

A question came up – Can a dead person’s fingerprint be used for biometrics?

A recently dead one, whose body is well preserved — it may work. One may have to forcibly straighten the fingers stiffened from rigor mortise. It becomes a lot more difficult with a corpse that has undergone some degree of decomposition or desiccation or has soaked in water so that the skin has softened.

Medical examiners can surgically remove a dead person’s hands or fingers and send them to a lab where more advanced techniques can be employed. For skin that’s badly deteriorated, it may be possible to use silicone putty to make a casting that captures the detail of the fingerprint ridges. Those impressions can then be photographed and used in identification.

In a study published Nov. 5, 2013, in GMS Interdisciplinary Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery DGPW, researchers looked at the effectiveness of a technique called thanatopractical processing, in which fluid is extracted from other parts of a body’s remains and used to restore tenseness and volume to the fingers to fatten them for printing.

How long do fingerprints remain usable? There isn’t a lot of research on that subject. A study published in December 22, 2016, in IEEE Xplore and described in a 2017 USA Today article, usable biometric data has been obtained from corpses dead for up to four days in warm weather and as long as two months in winter.

Anil Jain, a professor of computer science at Michigan State University and expert on biometric technology says that a rotting body changes shape, including the digits, which distorts the fingerprints. How fast the body rots depend on where it was found or stored.  As per Jain, body parts under water and in very hot climate will decompose much faster. He claims that a fingerprint can be reconstructed by making a conductive copy of the deceased’s finger.

In his lab, researchers have accomplished this by first making an impression of a finger using the same material dentists used to make molds of teeth. Next, they put conductive silicone or gelatin inside the mold to make a cast. Once the fake finger is extracted from the mold, it was used to spoof a conductive fingerprint scanner. Jain said the lab has unlocked multiple devices using this technology.

Can you unlock a smart with a spoofed fingerprint?

According to Apple’s website, Touch ID won’t work by itself after it has gone unused for 48 hours. At that point, a pass-code or password must be entered for additional validation to unlock a phone.  The Samsung website says that if your phone has not been used for more than 24 hours, you will need to use your PIN, password, or pattern instead of your fingerprint.

Amazon series Bosch – Season 4 – shows the Los Angeles Police Department detective going to the morgue and pressing a corpse’s thumb to the screen of a mobile phone, to unlock it and see if there are any clues in the murder victim’s data.  It did work in the in the reel life, but in real life, it does not. Once a tissue is dead, it loses all its electrical charge and will fail to activate a phone’s fingerprint sensor, making it impossible to unlock.

Your footprints – you leave them on the sands of time. Your fingerprints – you leave them with your Pension Sanctioning Authority.

Nothing Inky

On 28 October 2023, at the Canadian Malayalam Writers’ Forum, I met Preethi, a charming young lady who had a dozen copies of her book വേരോർമ്മകൾ  (Verormakal) – meaning reminiscences. I asked her the price for a copy, and she had no clue as to how much her book must be priced.

“$10” I said handing her a $20 bill along with a cost-free advice – “Never give your book free to anyone – even to your best friends or closest relatives.  Neither will they ever read it, nor will they appreciate your efforts.”

The first chapter of the book narrates the story of a young girl cleaning her slate with മഷിത്തണ്ട് (Mashithandu) meaning ink-stem – stem of a wild weed which grow abundantly in Kerala.  As a child I too used it up to Grade 3, studying at our village school in Kerala. Today the slates have smartened up that they need no cleaning – hence the ink-stem is not all that important for today’s children.

Pepperomia Pellucida- Mashithandu, as its botanical name suggests belongs to the Pepper family.  It is known in North America as pepper elder, silverbush, rat-ear, man-to-man, clearweed. In southern Kerala, it is known as കോലുമഷി (Kolumashi) again meaning ink-stem, but there is nothing inky about itIn Northern Kerala it is known as വെള്ളത്തണ്ട് (Vellathandu) meaning water-stick.  This name appeared most appropriate to me as a kid as the plant’s leaves and stem had very high-water content.  Thus, it was the slate cleaner for kids as it did not leave any residue and was not poisonous.

I never realised the ink connection to the little plant until Grade 4 when we did our first experiment.  The experiment was to show that the roots of a plant absorbed water and is pushed up to its leaves.  We took an empty ink bottle and filled it with water.  To the water, a spoon of red ink was added.  A Mashithandu plant was uprooted and placed in the ink bottle with its roots submerged in the red water.  After two weeks the colour of the plant changed to red.

The Mashithandu plant – of about 6 – 8” – is found in highly moist places and flowers year-round.  The blooms are also green in colour and looks akin to the pepper strands. It has plentiful, glossy green, heart shaped leaves that is somewhat fleshy and looks like rat’s ears.  Hence the name rat-ear.

Mashithandu, I never located the plant anywhere in India other than in Kerala.  Most other likely place could be in the North-Eastern states.  While posted there, I neither had any intention nor interest to look for one.

With the turn of the decade when I visited our home in Kerala, I explored the homestead looking for a Mashithandu.  With the advent of rubber cultivation in our area, many species of herbal plants and wild plants disappeared along with the Mashithandu.

Mashithandu  – a small plant arouses lot of nostalgia among Malayalees and Preethi is no different. 

Salamander Crossing

While driving to Richmond Hill, a suburb of Toronto, the GPS re-routed me to avoid the road closure on Stouffville Road. I turned on the radio and it said that when it rains in October, a portion of Stouffville Road in Richmond Hill is closed so that the endangered Jefferson Salamanders can cross the road in safety.  The road is also closed in spring (March – April) to facilitate their safe crossing.

Our Grade 5 Biology textbook had the Salamander as an example of an amphibian along with the frog.  We were all familiar with the frog, but not the salamander.  Mr Venky, our biology teacher at Sainik School Amaravathinagar said it is a lizard like amphibian and is an inhabitant of North and South America.

Salamanders are tailed amphibians belonging to the order Caudata. There are around 800 known species worldwide. North America is home to more species of salamanders than anywhere else in the world.

Most salamanders resemble lizards and are sometimes erroneously mistaken for them. However, as amphibians, salamanders lack scales and claws and have moist, glandular skin.  They breathe through gills, lungs, the lining of their mouth, and their skin, sometimes in combination, sometimes separately.

Salamanders feed on insects, worms, snails, and other small animals, including members of their own species. Like other amphibians, they absorb water through their skin, and they require a moist habitat. In regions where the temperature goes below freezing, they often hibernate.

During October, the Jefferson Salamanders, an endangered species, scuttle across the Stouffville Road as they migrate from their summer breeding grounds to return to their winter habitat in the deciduous forest. A section of Stouffville Road is in the Oak Ridges, which has many of the features the Jefferson salamander requires, including undisturbed natural forests, rocky outcrops, wetlands and ponds.  As the temperature drops, they make their way across the road, to their winter habitat in the deciduous forest to survive the cold. Most Jefferson Salamanders relocate on rainy nights.

Come spring and the salamanders, under the cover of night, poke their heads out of the burrows in the deciduous forests as first warm rains hit the ground.  They cross the road to breed in swamps, ponds or even roadside ditches.

Most adult salamanders hide by day and feed by night. Some remain hidden underground until the breeding season, or they may emerge only when levels of moisture and temperature are appropriate.

Salamanders can sense vibrations but are unable to hear. They have two nostrils connected to the mouth, eyes that often have movable lids, a tongue that is often protrusible, a skeleton that is largely bony, and a three-chambered heart.

Like all amphibians, salamanders are Ectotherms, meaning that they do not generate their own body heat. Instead, their body temperature is dependent on their environment. For example, amphibians can regulate their body temperature through behaviour and habitat use (e.g., by moving in and out of shade). This is known as Behavioural Thermoregulation.

While it’s unknown how many Jefferson salamanders currently live in the region, their population is generally assumed to be declining.  Such efforts by the municipality will go a long way in ensuring that their numbers grow.

Godfather in the Indian Army

Recently I read the sad news of a young officer of the Indian Army who died after the officer was Dined-In the previous evening, and was made to consume a lot of alcohol. It is learnt from various WhatsApp posts – which I do not believe at all– some claiming that the officer underwent the strenuous Battlefield Physical efficiency Test the following morning and collapsed.

Many feel tired after drinking because of the calming and relaxing effect of alcohol. A night of over-indulging may result in you fighting weariness the next day. Drinking lowers your Rapid Eye Movement (REM), leading to poor quality sleep. When you wake up, you will feel drained of energy and will struggle to concentrate.

When you wake up, the body experiences alcohol withdrawal symptoms as it works to get rid of the toxins. Most studies show that those who consume large amounts of alcohol before going to bed are likely to experience delayed sleep onset. It is because during the night, the liver enzymes metabolise the alcohol, which leads to a decrease in the alcohol level. This process will lead to poor sleep quality and night-time disturbances.

It is important to Hydrate when you stop drinking. Water plus other healthy fluids will help your body remove toxins and improve how you feel. During the early stages of detoxification, you may experience symptoms such as vomiting, nausea, and sweating. These symptoms further dehydrate the body.  Light exercises such as walking, or biking will help you feel more energetic. Such exercises boost your blood flow and help improve your physical and mental health.  You can also try moderate physical activity to increase your energy and boost your stamina, but never heavy physical exertion.

Most of us, on joining our Regiments as Second Lieutenant/ Lieutenant underwent a similar Dining-In.  That was when we hardly knew any officer in the Regiment.  Everything was alien to us – soldiers, equipment, etc – much different from what we experienced in our training days at the Academy.

That is where we need a Godfather in the Regiment.  I was lucky to have Captain (now Veteran Colonel) Rahul Gowardhan as our Battery Captain (BK.)  We were deployed in Rajasthan, and I had a small bivouac to live.   He often called me to his tent, made me sit down, offered me a cup of tea and spoke to me at length.  Every time he reassured me that I was doing well and gave me many tips about being a gentleman and a good officer.

Our Battery Commander (BC) was Late Major Daulat Bharadwaj.  The way he taught me and the life lessons I learned from him, I have reflected in my novel Son of a Gunner (available on Amazon.)

Captain Gowardhan was later our Adjutant for seven years.  Let me quote him: – “Reji used to follow the dictum that as youngster commit any mistake but keep the Adjutant informed. Therefore, it was quite often that I used to jump from the chair when he used to come and inform “Sir, chhotasa galati ho gaya. (Sir, I Committed a small mistake.)” The so-called small mistake used to be slapping the Superintendent of Police or bashing up BSF Dy Commandant. It wasn’t for the wrong reasons, but we had to sort out the issues.

On 31 Oct 1984, Regiment’s column was ordered to move and take responsibility of security of Teen Murty Bhawan, where mortal remains of our late Prime Minister, Mrs Indira Gandhi were kept. Regiment was also responsible for controlling VIP visitors, who came there to pay homage to late the Prime Minister. Reji stopped Inspector General of Delhi Police, who along with family was sneaking through the VIP gate. This resulted into arguments with the Police Officer asking, “What are you doing here and who are you to stop me?”  Reji said to that officer, “Had police been working properly, Army would not have come to control this.” This was being heard and observed by Minister-in-Charge there Mr Shivraj Patil and he appreciated Reji for his dedication to duty and rebuked Police Officer. Later, the Regiment received an appreciation letter and cash prize from the Minister.”

As a Lieutenant, during a Regimental party in December 1984, I got badly drunk.  By midnight, Colonel Gowardhan put me in the guestroom of the Officers’ Mess and closed the door.  I woke up by mid-noon next day and went to the Adjutant’s office.  He asked me if I had any hangover effect of headache or dehydration.  He made me drink three glasses of water followed by an advice “Never go overboard!” 

I quit drinking that day to consume my next peg on 17 March 1997 to celebrate the birth of our son.

While in command, my Godfather was Colonel (now Veteran Brigadier) Azad Sameer, our Colonel General Staff (Col GS.)  I sought his counsel whenever I was in a difficult situation.  He counselled me, motivated me, and admonished me when necessary.  He treated me more as his younger brother than a subordinate. 

Colonel Sameer is a great thinker, and we had many discussions varying from military subjects to parenting and our outlook towards religion and politics. We both believed in our God and did not believe in wearing our God on our sleeves or placing the images of our God in our vehicles in that many in the army never realised that Colonel Sameer was a Muslim and I a Christian.

Please read Abiding Faith by clicking here.

During many tactical discussions and exercises we had, I had the opportunity of accompanying Colonel Sameer. He is an ever smiling, soft spoken soldier who easily passed off as a young Lieutenant. After preparations for the tactical discussion the next day, in the evening we visited the bar at the Officers’ Mess. He ordered his favourite Old Monk Rum and I a peg of Teachers Whiskey. The barman, assuming Colonel Sameer to be a young officer, served me first. At last, I had to request him “Sir, whenever we are together, we both will always move around in our uniforms.

Book Review : Dare Dream Different by General Tharakan

Dream, Dream Dream; Dreams transform into thoughts and thoughts result in action. You must dream before your dreams can come true. Great dreams of great dreamers are always transcended,” thus wrote Dr Adbul Kalam, a great dreamer of all times.

This book is all about such a dream by a child Jake to fly by air and visit places.  Not he alone, but he wanted his parents too to enjoy the pleasure of flying in an aircraft.  How Jake fructified this dream – by his dedication, hard work and will to fulfill is narrated well.

It is the story of the journey of Jake from his birth to his travel from Atlantic Coast to the Pacific Coast of USA.  It is a detailed travelogue where Jake recalls his journey in USA and connects it with what he underwent growing in Kerala, Military School, University and over three decades of dedicated military service.  Throughout the book, Jake travels between his life in India and the journey through USA.

The book is akin to what Jake says – Life is a story that unravels page by page every day and we individually script and star in that story. The book can well be summarised into this line.  Jake felt very proud when the lady at the counter at Hollywood offered him a Veteran’s concession ticket and said, “Thank you very much Sir, for the service to Your Nation.”

Jake brings out many life lessons through his journey.  While apple picking, he realises – Those overtaken by greed end up with fewer apples and a torn bag.

Walking through the woods during the Fall, Jake philosophises – When winter wore off, green shoots sprang up all over.  Nobody noticed the dead leaves fall. People noticed only the green.

Jake is a foodie and he concludes – Food has a strong sense of identity.  It is one way of reaching and breaching cultural barriers.

Driving through Carmel Bay and on seeing The Lone Tree, Jake’s outlook is worth a read – She is called the Lone Tree, not the Lonely Tree. She exemplifies the will to live.

Looking at this book as a travelogue, it brings out many tips to the travelers to North America.

  • Nothing comes free in this part of the world.
  • Every town has a museum or two – every other street in a city houses a museum.  These museums display artefacts very well documented.  You must visit those which interests you.
  • Research well before setting out.  Collect as much information about the place, weather, places on interest, buildings and monuments to be visited, etc. 
  • Whatever you see, correlate with what you have seen in your motherland, learn what you can do to improve your life, your family’s, and the people around you.
  • Observe courtesies extended to you by mostly unknown persons  – what ever small it may be -and try and practice it in your day-to-day life on return.
  • Armed with the information, you will enjoy and understand the culture and history better.
  • Observe the enactments of various historical events – least you can help your grandchildren to in their presentations to be Different.
  • Your friends and well wishers are your life’s investment.  If you have been kind to them, they will be kind to you in a foreign land, where no one has time for anyone else.

The book is titled Dare Dream Different, but if you Dream then you will Dare which will make you Different.

The book is available on Amazon

Canadian Armed Forces – New Laws on Sexual Misconduct

On Aug. 15, 2023, Canadian Defence Minister Bill Blair announced that Canadian Armed Forces (CAF) members who experience sexual misconduct or harassment can now file a complaint directly with the Canadian Human Rights Commission instead of the internal military grievance process. 

The policy was one of the major pillars of Operation Honour, the military’s campaign to stamp out sexual misconduct in the ranks. Complaints about harassment and discrimination that are not based on sex will still be handled through internal military procedures.

The Human Rights Commission received 42 complaints about discrimination based on sex by military members between 2015 and 2021.  The number was likely so low because of a requirement to exhaust the internal grievance process before taking complaints outside the institution.

The change is to scrap a controversial Duty to Report policy that requires CAF members to report all incidents of misconduct, including sexual misconduct or racism, regardless of whether they were directly affected by them. Failing to report incidents of misconduct and wrongdoing was punishable under old military regulations.  The new policy will eliminate the obligation to report and penalties for not reporting and give members the opportunity to exercise discretion and choose the best path forward.

Although the Duty to Report has been in military regulations since the 1930s, it was given new life and extra teeth after a 2015 independent investigation into sexual misconduct found victims under-reported incidents because they feared reprisals and didn’t trust the investigation process.

A House of Commons committee report complained in 2019 that the rules on the policy were too vague.  Rather, the policy was ambiguous and difficult for the military to prosecute.

Duty to Report policy has long been criticised by victims of misconduct and independent observers like former Supreme Court justice Louise Arbour, who delivered a landmark report on sexual misconduct in the military last year. They have argued that by allowing bystanders to report wrongdoing, the policy took the Canadian Human Rights Commission away from victims who may or may not have wanted to speak up.

It was thought that the Duty to Report obligation could help ensure that incidents were not ignored or minimised, and that it would enhance protections for survivors.   the Duty to Report regulations have had unintended negative consequences for people affected by offences of an interpersonal nature, such as sexual misconduct or hateful conduct.

The new regulation aims to induce a culture where survivors, and all those affected by misconduct, feel safe, supported, and able to report wrongs on their own terms. Now, any sexual assault survivors can weigh their options. If they choose to remain silent, they do not have to fear further punishment or face unwelcome exposure if others inform on their predicament against their wishes.

The new regulation will apply to new and existing complaints, allowing military members to ask for an independent review before exhausting internal grievance processes. Modernising complaint processes is a key component of the efforts to bring in cultural changes in the CAF. It will ensure that CAF members access human rights justice swiftly.

Visit to a Lavender Farm

We spent a summer’s day outdoors, delighting in the calming showering fragrances and taking in the serenity of the purple-hued landscape of Avlon Lavender Farm. Avalon invites a special connection to nature. Literally meaning Isle of Fruit. The farm has over 30,000 lavender plants – English + French –  in 7 different cultivars.

Lavender or lavandula comes from the Latin word lavare meaning ‘to wash’, as Romans used it abundantly in their baths, hot spas & massages. In botanical terms, lavandula belongs to the mint family of scented plants, along with thyme, mint, sage and many others.

For a long time lavender or lavandula was known as a wild solitary plant. It grew high up on the hot, sunny slopes of mountains, away from civilized places on arid, uncultivated ground. Neither sown, nor cultivated, withstood the winds and the droughts, with two good friends: sun to grow and bees to pollinate. It wasn’t long before the shepherds spread their secrets and lavender descended from the hilltops to more accessible plateaus.

Lavender may have earned this name because it was frequently used in baths to help purify the body and spirit. However, this herb has also been used as a remedy for a range of ailments from insomnia and anxiety to depression and fatigue. Research has confirmed that lavender produces a slight calming, soothing, and sedative effects when its scent is inhaled.

From Greece, Egypt, Rome, English gardens, and the hills of Provence, lavender cultivation spread and it become an essential remedy for many ailments and well-being. Lavender subtle floral fragrance attracted soap and perfume makers, to make it the most versatile herb of all. Times came and gone, and still today, the ‘purple gold’ is unscathed choice as a true natural remedy for well-being and healing.

Lavandula angustifolia, also called True lavender or English lavender, is best known for its sweet, mellow scent, high quality essential oil, medicinal properties and it is a widely used culinary herb. Propagated by seeds and cuttings, it is cold and drought tolerant.

Lavandula X Intermedia known as French lavender is a hybrid between Lavandula angustifolia and Lavandula Latifolia, best known for its tall stalks, heady fragrance and high oil yield. It is used in aromatherapy and cosmetics. However it is not considered culinary lavender, due to its higher camphor content than Lavandula angustifolia. Lavandula X Intermedia flowers are sterile and propagation is done through cuttings. It is also cold and drought resistant.

Lavandula stoechas also known as Spanish lavender, grown more as ornamental plant than for oil distillation is more sensitive to cold winters.

At the Avlon Lavender farm, for an additional $10 at the door, you’ll be lent a scissors and given a bundle bag to fill with your own freshly cut lavender. Typically the bundle bag holds far more than $10 of fresh lavender, so this is great and economical way to enjoy the experience of harvesting your own lavender.

A field worker will point you to a specially flagged garden for Guest Cut-Your-Own, and will be available to help you cut to ensure maximum health for our lavender and your bouquet.

At the farm, 30 free-range lavender orpington hens love their life of grazing and adoration here at Avalon. Guests continue to fall in love with their curious and friendly temperaments.

To harvest the oils and hydrosols from lavender flowers, distillation is done with a Portuguese copper still. The process spreads aroma of fresh lavender.

At the end of the day, we all felt that it was worth the effort to visit the Avalon Lavender Farm at Mona, about 90 minutes drive from our home.

Rest In Peace – Colonel Baby Mathew

August 25, 2023 – the morning brought me the sad news of bereavement of Colonel Baby Mathew. 

Colonel Baby Mathew hailed from Pala, Kottayam.  He was commissioned in 31 Medium Regiment and later moved to 255 Field Regiment.  I met him while he was attending Long Gunnery Staff Course and I Advance Gunnery Course at School of Artillery, Devlali in 1988.  In 1992-93, we served together – he with 255 Field Regiment and I with 75 Medium Regiment, then part of 39 Mountain Artillery Brigade.

In 1996-97, he was commanding 255 Field Regiment at Bagrakot and I was with 75 Medium Regiment at Sikkim.  During my vacation and official trips, I visited him at Bagrakot.  Please read https://rejinces.net/2017/07/23/lungi/

He commanded 255 Field Regiment during the Kargil Conflict.  The Regiment played an active role in providing close fire support to the attacking soldiers who captured Tiger Hill and Tololing.

Post retirement, he worked with Federal Bank.

Colonel Baby Mathew was ever smiling with a positive attitude to life.  He always remained calm, even in the most adverse situations.  He was a great friend, mentor and guide to me during my military service and also during our immigration to Canada and life there after.

Rest in Peace Colonel Baby Mathew.  I will ever cherish that smile of yours.

Badlands of Ontario, Canada

Featuring rust red undulating topography, the Cheltenham Badlands is part of an area designated as a UNESCO World Biosphere Reserve, and it plays a vital role in geographical conservation. It is a series of bare, windswept red hills and gullies in southern Ontario that formed due to overgrazing. In the 1930s, the area was still productive farmlands, but poor farming practices resulted in the creation of the rolling Martian landscape.

It is located at Caledon, about an hour away from Toronto and Mississauga and north of Brampton, on the Old Baseline Road.

The area was once fertile farmland as the settlers grew various crops, but the farming practices caused the erosion of shallow topsoil, exposing the underlying Queenston Shale. The changing seasons further accelerated the erosion of the shale, resulting in this unique landscape.

The Cheltenham Badlands is a landscape of rolling red rock made up of highly eroded and exposed Queenston Shale. The red hills were slowly revealed as the elements wore away the vegetation over the years. The bright red color is due to a high concentration of iron oxide, while the greenish streaks are a result of groundwater oxidizing the red rock.

The shale has now eroded into a series of hummocks and gullies, producing the distinctive landscape.  The striking landscape of the Cheltenham Badlands is one of Ontario’s geological treasures and is one of the best examples of Badland topography in the province.  As the shale supports little or no vegetation, it has left the area as barren badlands. The exposed geological processes displayed by the Badlands makes it a popular educational site for geology enthusiasts and tourists alike.

Earlier, this distinctive landscape was open fully, allowing visitors to walk over the formation. This resulted in accelerated erosion of the sensitive red shale surface and caused permanent changes to the Badland’s unique appearance.  To protect the Badlands from further erosion, the site was in 2015 and developed a boardwalk that closed off physical access to the Badlands by 2018.

Request for Assistance from Veteran Brigadier Josekutty Kurian

Annamma (name changed to protect privacy) is a frail, 85 year widow, on palliative care, due to multiple ailments. She has three sons and three daughters; elder son passed away over 10 years back, in a gruesome accident. The other two are casual labourers, egging out a living by rubber tapping. Augstin, the younger son, with whom Annamma stays, goes out for tapping at 5 am, toiling till evening making rubber sheets, earning a pittance at the end of it. His three children are in 7th, 6th and 2nd standard at a nearby school. 

Annamma’s two daughters are nuns serving in a congregation which runs 17 orphanages across the world, including in Africa and India. They look after mentally challenged orphans, many of whom are also physically challenged and fully bedridden. Because of financial constraints, they do not, as a policy, employ outside caregivers. All care is given by the nuns themselves, 24×7. Having been associated with them for over 15 years, my heart goes out to these nuns for their unwavering dedication to these deprived Children of Lesser Gods.

During one of my frequent visits to the orphanages, I heard of the miserable condition that the mother of these two nuns is living in. I thought it prudent to check it out and travelled by bus for four hours and thereafter trekked uphill half an hour to reach their ramshackle hut. What I saw shook my conscience. 

Here was the mother of two nuns doing utmost service to the suffering humanity, cuddled on a wet bed and room, due to constant leakage of the roof, due to monsoon rains. The family had no money to repair/ replace the tarpaulin of the leaking roof and other minimum work to make it livable. A cursory discussion with knowledgeable persons revealed it would take approx Rs 5 lac to make the house in a decent state, without constant leakage of the roof.

Humanity at large, particularly the neighbourhood, had every reason to hang its head in shame. But most villagers being in the deprived category, had little means to look after such a neighbour. 

I therefore appeal to the good Samaritans of this World, who have the heart, to contribute their might to ensure that this pious old lady has a decent ending, for the contribution she has made to make this world a better place to live for the mentally and physically challenged. Your contributions may kindly be sent directly to the bank account, details as under.

Name: Augstin Varghese 
SBI Acct # 32892797238 – IFSC code: SBIN0006459

Veteran Brigadier Josekutty Kurian, Indian Army Veteran Mob # +91 9619498282

Veteran Centre Forwards

Many Veterans have now turned into excellent Centre Forwards – not in the game of Soccer- but on social media.  They forward anything and everything they receive including some of their personal messages; without realising that the group or person to whom one is sending has already received the very same wisdom from someone with a faster finger. The speed at which their finger moves on their mobile screen is akin to applying lime on a betel leaf. In effect, they glance and never read.

The tendency to forward messages on social media could be to prove to themselves that they are Virtually Alive.  They tend to forward every kind of message without thinking of its consequences. Most of the messages they forward are far from the truth and are from unreliable/ unverified sources.  They are unaware that the truth travels at the speed of sound whereas fakes travel at the speed of light.

Forwarding someone else’s message is plagiarism and a copyright violation.  Forwarding a fake or incorrect message is a crime.  In 2018, Madras High Court rejected the anticipatory bail of a journalist-turned-party leader for his allegedly derogatory Facebook post on women journalists. The judge noted “Forwarding a message is equal to accepting the message and endorsing the message.”

In another case of fake social media messages in 2020, Justice N Seshasayee remarked, “Mine would be the first vote for freedom of expression. But irresponsible, unverified and unsubstantiated social media posts cannot be tolerated.”

Social media is highly addictive and habit forming. In one’s spare time or breaks between our day-to-day tasks, many are trying to be Centre Forwards on social media.  The time they should have spent with their family or friends, engaging in a conversation, pursuing a hobby, reading, exercising etc are wasted by being a Centre Forward. A sure way to kill whatever creativity left in you.

The Centre Forwards on two Whatsapp groups I am a member of, were my superior officers – Majors, Colonels, Brigadiers and Generals – who were either my commanders or my instructors during many army courses I attended.  As Cadets at the Academies, we had to come up with ingenious ideas to escape the prying eyes of our instructors.  As young Lieutenants, we were asked to be innovative.  As Captains we had to be unconventional and unorthodox.  As Majors we had to think out-of-the-box and be imaginative.  As Commanding Officers our senior commanders expected us to be enterprising and insightful.

Many of these superior officers who wanted me to be Original and outthink the enemy are now spectacular Centre Forwards on Whatsapp.  One Veteran Brigadier even justified being a Centre Forward and gave a detailed argument supporting it akin to the use of faculty notes (pinks) by student officers during various army courses. Our academy coursemates, many of whom were instructors at various military institutions and commanders at various levels, are now exceptional Centre Forwards.

In both the Whatsapp groups, it is 99% forwards with 1% original content.  These Centre Forwards were never creative while in the army and continue to be so post retirement.  Many of these Centre Forwards pass the ball without even reading it, analysing it and evaluating its relevance and truth. They carry out blind passes, many times ending in scoring self-goals.

In this age of unparalleled transparency, it is impossible for anyone to disown a statement or opinion expressed on these public forums. Every netizen is both accountable and responsible for all their actions on social media.  Any post once made, becomes the ‘property’ of the social media.  Even if you delete or edit the original post, the original remains somewhere.  The new generation in Canada do not want any of their photographs posted or tagged showing them smoking, drinking or partying as they feel that their prospective employers might dig into the social media.  Some political leaders are now haunted by some innocent photos of their youth that their friends posted on social media.

These Centre Forwards do not realise that their unverified and unsubstantiated forwards raise many questions about their credibility – if they had any while in service.  The most important aspect regarding communication is the credibility and trust your friends and the society bestows on you, especially as a Veteran.  While forwarding any mail or making any posts or comments, ensure that this trust is never betrayed.

When in Doubt, Do Not Post It, Always Throw it Out. Never become a Centre Forward.

If you do not read the messages on social media, you are uninformed. If you read them, you are misinformed.  Courtesy Mark Twain 

Indian Army & Agniveers

On 14 August 2022, Ipsos Group S.A. (French pronunciation: ​[ip. sos]; Institut Public de Sondage d’Opinion Secteur,) a multinational market research and consulting firm with headquarters in Paris, France, published a pan India survey to identify India’s Most Trusted Institutions.

65% of respondents ranked the Defence Forces first followed by the Reserve Bank of India with a 50% rating.  Indian Prime Minister received 49% of citizens’ trust and was followed by the Supreme Court of India with 47%.  The Central Bureau of Investigations was ranked fifth with 43% and the Police came sixth with 38%.   

The Parliament received 33%, Media 32% and the Election Commission of India 31%. At the bottom of the heap were Politicians (16%), Political Parties (17%), Community Leaders (19%) and Religious Leaders (21%). 

It wasn’t surprising at all for the Defence Forces being the most trusted institution.  It is based on the ethos, credibility, respect, integrity and discipline that the Defence Services of India has exhibited.  It is all about Naam, Namak & Nishan – ethos of the Indian Army to strive for the name of the country/ regiment, the salt partaken and the glory of the national/ regimental flag.

Of late it appears that there is a concerted effort by the political leadership and the bureaucracy to belittle the Armed Forces.  The Generals, Admirals and Air Marshals appear to have played along, accepting all the diktats in silence.

De-Regimentalisation is one of the methods to break the effectiveness of the Indian Army.  It does not apply as much to the Navy or the Air Force by virtue of their structure and functioning.  Adoption of a common uniform for Brigadiers and Generals is intended to bolster a common identity and approach in service matters amongst the senior hierarchy. The aim could well be to reduce parochialism towards one’s own regiment or corps. If so, a change of mindset is more important to achieve cohesion than cosmetic changes in uniform

Many proposals  have come up to De-Regimentalise the Indian Army by way of changes in uniforms, regimental names, traditional ceremonies, rituals, procedures, etc – all in the name of getting rid of colonial legacies. Some of these are already under implementation.

The system of recruitment to the armed forces has recently undergone a sea change, again to put the Armed Forces at their Right place. The Agnipath Scheme has been introduced.  The Agniveers of the scheme wherein a soldier serves four years and 25% of them are to be absorbed on merit as regular soldiers.  Those discharged on completion of four-year term will not be eligible for any kind of pension or gratuity, neither will they be eligible for Ex Servicemen Contributory Health Scheme (ECHS), Canteen Stores Department (CSD) facilities, Ex Serviceman status nor other related benefits.

Ostensibly, the new scheme has been  introduced with a view to improve the age profile and thereby the combat efficiency of the Defence Forces. But many critics point out that the primary aim of the scheme is to reduce the pension bill of the armed forces in the long run while it may actually change the ethos of the Defence Forces and may be detrimental to the combat efficiency of the armed forces.

In case the defence expenditure is to be curtailed and pension expenditure reigned in, the defence production factories and the Defence Research and Development (DRDO) must be cut to size. Most of these institutions are white elephants and need to be corporatised/ privatised at the earliest. Many may claim them to be national strategic assets. Look at VSNL and  Air-India – they  were claimed to be national strategic assets once and on becoming corporatised/ privatised, their performances are well known. 

If the money saved in cutting defence expenditure is spent on education or healthcare, it is beneficial to the country; else, … it is a pointless exercise.

To maintain the Armed Forces young, part time soldiering is one solution. Implementing a four-year or two-year term may be workable in countries with mandatory conscription. Many countries with voluntary military service, voluntary retirement is allowed at eight/ ten years of service with about 50% pension.  For Officers, only those with command potential are allowed to continue after ten years of service. Thus, the steep pyramidal rank structure gets better with less  crowding at the top.

The Agnipath scheme is already under implementation. In four to five years time approximately 25000 to 30000 Agniveers will be released from the services every year. Useful utilisation of such a large number of trained soldiers will indeed be a gigantic problem. The government does indeed have some rehabilitation and resettlement plans for the discharged Agniveers. At least some of these personnel will be absorbed into the police, paramilitary services and other governemnt services. Going by the past record, it does not seem likely that the problem will be addressed in any meaningful manner.

Decades of reality belied all such current day platitudes.   A Veteran Indian soldier of the day finds it difficult to get employment in private/ public enterprises.  Most governmental institutions do give some preference to the Veteran soldier, but the opportunities available are limited compared to the number of retiring soldiers.  Many Veteran soldiers remain either unemployed or are under-employed with very minimal salary and benefits. But these present day veterans do have a pension and the problem of penury is not very acute.   How can you expect a soldier who returns after four-year military service to find a job? The numbers are going to be large and large scale unemployment of trained military personnel could lead to serious problems for the society at large.

Critics point out that unemployed Agniveers could become potential recruits for criminal gangs. Such trained manpower could also be exploited by insurgents and terrorists generally lead to criminalisation of civil society and contribute to increased lawlessness. Large numbers may also become mercenaries abroad to fight someone else’s war on foreign soil. This is seen as an accelerating trend.

The way out

To attract the best talent and to ensure that they put in their best and serve the nation with dedication, it is suggested that giving 5 percent additional marks to the Agniveers who complete four-year tenure with unblemished record for all entrance examinations held by the Central and State Government agencies for professional courses – medical, dental, engineering, management, law, AIIMS, IIT, IIM, etc and also for examinations of  the central and state public service commissions. Further this could be backed up by concessional scholarship schemes at the state and central level.

A study of US Military Veterans deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan since 9/11, who joined various universities and colleges across America says that over 3 million veterans of the post-9/11 generation have entered higher education after service.  Most of them are between the ages of 25 to 34 and come from a host of different backgrounds and cultures. Majority served in the enlisted ranks of the military (82%) with about Army (47%), Navy (18%), Air Force (21%), Marine Corps (12%), Coast Guard 2%. Many of them are members of the National Guard or the Reserves (45%).

For successful utilisation of the Agniveers,  education is the key to their future.  If such large numbers of  US veterans pursue education as a means to future gainful employment, there seems no logical reason to believe that it is not practical in India.  Like the National Guard of the Reserves in the US, India too can raise its voluntary force with the Agniveers.

Like the US Veterans, the Agniveers are high-school graduates.  Research has shown that, on the average, US Veteran students maintain higher GPAs than traditional civilian students and are more likely to persist and graduate at higher rates as compared to their civilian counterparts.  Veteran students account for 3–4% of college students in the US.

Agniveers will bring valuable perspectives to the student community.  They possess maturity, discipline, work ethic, and leadership skills learned in the Defence Forces. They are also focused on achievement and success and are mission oriented. They are more likely to demonstrate appreciation, affiliation, and loyalty towards their institution. They will continue to  push themselves to achieve even higher levels of education over the course of their lifetime. They will bring along advanced technical skills along with proficiency in multiple languages. They will possess characteristics such as adaptability, self-discipline, leadership, management skills, work ethic, teamwork, professionalism, resilience, and mental fortitude – A sure recipe for a successful student in any field.